If you ask most people ''what is happiness?'', you'll see that everyone is going to answer you in a different way. For example some will say that they're happy with the purchase of a new car,others are happy 'cause they have in their lives people they love,while others(including myself) are happy when they listen to music,read a book or going out with friends. So we can understand that we cannot give a simple answer to this question. Firstly because as we said,each human finds happiness in many different things or situations. Secondly humans are constructed in a way that they can never be completely happy and satisfied. Many will disagree and say that they have everything in their lives right now and they are happy. I don't dispute. But for how long this happiness is going to maintain? For just a few hours,days or perhaps weeks until they get bored and complain that they are unhappy.
At this point i want to make a distinction. There are several people who are optimistic even if they have gone through hard situations. But that does not mean that they are happy,they are simply strong characters and prefer to face the situations with confidence and smile.
To find happiness first you need to identify the reason that you are unhappy. Maybe it's because of an illness or loss of a partner, friend, etc. Once you identify the reason try to think whether or not you can change it. If it is something which you can then choose to be optimistic and change the situation. If it's not in your hand try to be patient until it's gone because that's the cycle of life. And since you can not change the situation just relax and go ahead as it is in your hand.
Then you should find the thing that offers you joy and happiness. Whether it's an object or a person try to get it. In a sense, happiness is connected with dreams and aspirations. If you can make your dreams come true,automatically you are happy. Fill your days with optimism, smile, love, peace. And remember,when you make one of your dreams come true then you should create another dream,in this way you'll never going to be unhappy because you constantly trying to conquer something, and when you manage to do it then it comes happiness. Finding happiness is to be an everyday fighter,against life,against yourself.
What is love? Most of us have wondered that question many times, how to understand love, how to share it, where to find it. I am not a philosopher nor a researcher to know the right answers. I can only state my personal aspect of love.
The day we are born,we are introduced to love by loving our mother.Then our father who protect us from harm.Then as we grow up we make friends,we have social contacts, relationships,we learn to love people outside our family. But there are people who do not have family nor friends. Does this means that they do not know how to love or they don't deserve to be loved?Of course the answer is no.
So we need to understand that we are all human beings able to love and be loved. Love is a strong emotion that you feel for someone .What you feel for your family is different from what you feel for example your partner, your pet, your friends etc. Therefore we can say that we are able to "dispense" our love into lots of things.
But what is love? A simple feeling with various different intensity levels? For me love is a sweet look of my mother, the tenderness of her hug. It is the safety of my home, the passion for life.Love is to care for someone more than you care for your own self. You can find it everywhere. You got to be patient and have strength.You will get hurt on your journey but you have to pass through the obstacles of your life. You need to remember,you cannot force someone to love you. That is the way life works. Eventually you will receive it.
Well love is a difficult concept, impossible to define it completely. You can only understand it when you feel it. You cannot describe it with words. You can feel it everywhere and everyday.Be happy, always hope, be strong, do not give up. Everyone deserves to be loved. You will get hurt i know. But this is the magic of life. Remember that love lives in you. You still have it even if you've never received it. Love is kindness,learn to live wisely and always share it,everybody needs love.
It's sad the fact that most people take for granted their health.According to a research in America(2010) there were 2,515,458 deaths. 596,577 came from heart disease,576,691 from cancer,142,943 from chronic lower respiratory diseases,128,932 from stroke (cerebrovascular diseases),126,438 from accidents (unintentional injuries),84,974 from alzheimer's disease,73,831 from diabetes,53,826 from influenza and pneumonia,45,591 from nephritis, nephrotic syndrome, and nephrosis and 39,518 from intentional self-harm (suicide).I can't even begin to describe how terrible i feel about our spieces especially for the suicide deaths.
The majority of people today does not appreciate the fact that they are alive and healthy. There are people out there where a hospital is their second home.I'm not asking for compassion and sympathy. I'm asking for love and peace because nothing is given. Suddenly a human's life can change, tomorrow morning you may wake up just to go to school or work and discover that you have cancer. Life is precious, learn to appreciate it, other people do not have the ability to live like you. Appreciate what you have,learn not to ask for more. Of course there will always be '' jealousy '' because that's the way you're born. For example you want a new glorious house, a new expensive car etc. You forget that a sick person just wants his health. He wants to be able to live normally.
Don't criticize me and dont judge me. Of course i am one of those people who definitely can't appreciate anything. And that's the reason why i'm writing these. I'm trying to change everyday and so can you. Be happy for the little things in your life. Even if you can't see it now one day you'll realize how important they are. Always be safe and be healthy. Love your life and don't give up.
I wanted to write about this issue for a really long time. i decided to do it and not waste another minute.
I just finished watching a youtube video called ''teens react to bullying'' and it inspired me to write about my experience.I'm not gonna go into further details i just wanna admit that i was a victim of bullying at my school. Of course the way you are being bullied is different around the world but mainly ''is the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate, or aggressively dominate others''.
Since i can remember myself i was constantly a victim. At first i thought it was because i was definitely not a social kid.Then i thought it was because of my ''not so girly'' appearance. But now days i finally know the truth. Who ever you are in this planet , straight,gay,short,tall, people are gonna judge you. If you don't stand up for yourself eventually you''ll be a victim too. I never talked to basically anyone when i was a victim and that was the biggest mistake. Talk to your parents,your friends,inform your school and your teachers.
Of course the first thing that a victim thinks is the fact that most schools,teachers etc don't actually do something to stop the situation. Sometimes they will try and talk to the offender but do nothing more. Bullying has to stop ! People are getting hurt everyday for no reason.
If you have a problem with your life,your family it's your thing, deal with it,don't try to put other people down! We have to love each other no matter what.
If you are a victim i can honestly understand how you feel. Don't give up ! You are amazing ! You are different and you are supposed to be different ! Don't cry and don't give up !DO NOT THINK THAT SUICIDE IS THE ONLY WAY . YOU ARE NOT ALONE !
They are hundreds of numbers and sites that you can search. Pretty please try to control the situation ! TALK TO SOMEONE ! Feel free to contact me anytime .
i'm sad..idk if weather and rain have anything to do with the fact that i miss you..But yeah i do.. i'm not gonna talk about you though..
Growing up is the most amazing gift but also curse to me.. as the years pass by i can clearly see that life is short.. i wanna travel and i wanna do a lot of things before i die.. i refuse to loose my best friends or let them go.. eventually i know that we gonna loose touch..Not because we don't love each other but we all have to choose our path and ''deal'' with our destiny,make families etc.
So from now on everytime it rains i'll always remember the people that i love wherever they would be in this world..when it rains i'll always hope for a bright future..for better and happier days..i'll always hope that one day i will live the rest of my life with my loved ones..When it rains i promise God that i'll try and be a better person.. i'll try to fight everything and follow my dreams.. i'll try to appreciate my bad choices and those who hurt me in the past..when it rains everything seems different.. when it rains life is like a fairytale...
I know how it feels to be heart broken.. i've been there so many times now.. i've been there when i lost all of my friends,when i lost my grandma,when i lost a lot of things.. maybe that's the reason why i have monophobia.. I feel that i'm always gonna be alone and no one will ever understand me... Imagine a high mountain and a tiny human trying to climb it... that is how i feel right now.. Those feelings and fears will never go away.. I don't know if it is my fault .. the only thing i know is pain.. Wrong choices, bad experiences that will always haunt me. No hope ...
And yet in this whole situation I fight again.Thanks to my amazing family and friends. They can make me feel strong and stand up for myself no matter what. They will always support me and i'm sincerely glad. I can fight the darkness.. I can remove all the black pieces and replace them with white ones.. But that's not the meaning of life isn't it ? You are supposed to be a better person and not give up.. learn from your mistakes,life goes on and we have to leave it... '' Life is like a piano.. the white keys represent happiness,the black keys show sadness..but as you go through life's journey,remember that the black keys make music too''
It's summer time... and of course i feel sad each and every day.. i can't really explain that cause i have everything i ever wanted.. i have amazing friends by my side and everything seems to be working out how it's supposed to.. but still i'm scared.. i'm scared that i could never be happy in the future and misery will always be my best friend even though that's not true.. i know i have to appreciate life more and not be skeptic about everything.. But that's exactly the point.. you could never be happy.. you always want more.. it's in our nature to not be satisfied with anything.And even though i have amazing people by my side i still miss him a lot.. i will always do.. You know that feeling when you miss someone too much,then your heart starts breaking in to little pieces cause you can't really have him...cause he treated you like sh*t but you still love him with all your heart and you'll always do.. At this point of my life i feel confused and i'm not sure about anything...The only thing that i know is that i miss you darling.. i will always miss you... i will always love you.. you are my summertime sadness..
